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Okay let’s get to it. Instead of making a thousand small posts on how to make a girl squirt let’s just put it all together in a single big one. So here goes nothing:
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I. The Massage
As stated before proper bloodflow is essential to making a girl squirt.
Important: Make her go to the bathroom beforehand!
1. Lay her down, preferably on a bed sheet or a big towel to prevent the massage oil from ruining your furniture.
2. Apply a bunch of massage oil. Don’t be saving on that one.
3. Massage her whole back. Don’t worry if you dont exactly know how. Just…
->Time: approx. 10 minutes or more
- do not rub over the spine
- apply only light pressure over bones with few tissue on top (shoulder blade, sacrum)
- massage as firm as she is comfortable with but it must not hurt
- massage with your whole hand if possible. Massaging with the palm feels better then with the fingers.
- if you feel a tense muscle, stay with it. we want her to be as relaxed as possible
- take as much time as comfortable for you two. She should be in a beginning trance-like state if you’ve done it right.
4. Massage her buttocks. Much tension in there usually and now we get to the regions where it’s really important to get those tensions out or you will never see her squirt.
5. Massage her inner thighs. Same as above.
6. Turn her around. (A little cuddling in between can’t hurt)
7. Massage her pubic bone area. Be careful with the pressure.
8. Inner thighs again
II. The Fingering
9. Seamless transition from massage to fingering. Play a little with her clit first. Some oral is also said to help with the squirting.
10. Enter her vagina with two fingers. Your fingers should be well lubricated already and she is on her back.
11. Stimulate her G-Spot with your fingertips on the front inner wall which is now up. by continuously rubbing it. You can be pretty firm if she is okay with it.
12. Mostly rub the G-Spot but also stimulate her clitoris with your thumb or orally in between. Don’t give up if your fingers are getting tired.
13. If she says she needs to pee you are getting closer. It’s not the need to pee she really feels, she just doesn’t know the feeling of “squirt coming out of her urethra”. Tell her to let go. It’s actually physically impossible to pee during an orgasm. Also you still have those bed sheets under her … do you?
14. When she comes, step out of the way
You will see it’s neither yellow nor does it smell like urine.
15. Women stay aroused for quite some time after orgasming by the way. Feel free to enter her and join the fun.
Congratulations!
Now that was how to make a girl squirt to get you started. Let me tell you at a point in my life about 4 years ago I was really frustrated as I just couldn’t get women to have the kind of orgasms I really wanted to give them. In fact I often felt bad because my girlfriends never seemed fully satisfied with our relationship… and how could they?
To change this I’ve looked around the internet for advice, probably just like you. But boy oh boy let me tell you there is much crap written out there.
Especially most mainstream publications are so full of it. But who takes sex advice from Men’s Health anyway?
Well if you kiss enough frogs you’re bound to find a princess (in my case female of course hehe) some time. For me that was the day I found the female ejaculation techniques by Stephane Hemon (who doesn’t teach anymore by the way and his programs are gone for good) and then this sex guide by Susan Johnsson and Paul Tony.
And only after that I found out even more, about squirting for example. I don’t even know if I would have been able to get my girlfriends the ecstatic orgasms they have today without the basics from those three people. That is to say: Thank you Stephane, Susan and Paul!
Okay let’s finish this off. I hope I gave you a good overview of how to make a woman squirt and for everyone not yet satisfied, I recommend once more my new guide. Good luck!