How To Make A Girl Squirt

Note upfront: Making girls squirt is nice but what really made me a master of female orgasms is this.

Okay let’s get to it. Instead of making a thousand small posts on how to make a girl squirt let’s just put it all together in a single big one. So here goes nothing:

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I. The Massage

As stated before proper bloodflow is essential to making a girl squirt.
Important: Make her go to the bathroom beforehand!

1. Lay her down, preferably on a bed sheet or a big towel to prevent the massage oil from ruining your furniture.

2. Apply a bunch of massage oil. Don’t be saving on that one.

3. Massage her whole back. Don’t worry if you dont exactly know how. Just…

->Time: approx. 10 minutes or more

• do not rub over the spine
• apply only light pressure over bones with few tissue on top (shoulder blade, sacrum)
• massage as firm as she is comfortable with but it must not hurt
• massage with your whole hand if possible. Massaging with the palm feels better then with the fingers.
• if you feel a tense muscle, stay with it. we want her to be as relaxed as possible
• take as much time as comfortable for you two. She should be in a beginning trance-like state if you’ve done it right.

4. Massage her buttocks. Much tension in there usually and now we get to the regions where it’s really important to get those tensions out or you will never see her squirt.

5. Massage her inner thighs. Same as above.

6. Turn her around. (A little cuddling in between can’t hurt)

7. Massage her pubic bone area. Be careful with the pressure.

8. Inner thighs again

II. The Fingering

9. Seamless transition from massage to fingering. Play a little with her clit first. Some oral is also said to help with the squirting.

10. Enter her vagina with two fingers. Your fingers should be well lubricated already and she is on her back.

11. Stimulate her G-Spot with your fingertips on the front inner wall which is now up. by continuously rubbing it. You can be pretty firm if she is okay with it.

12. Mostly rub the G-Spot but also stimulate her clitoris with your thumb or orally in between. Don’t give up if your fingers are getting tired.

13. If she says she needs to pee you are getting closer. It’s not the need to pee she really feels, she just doesn’t know the feeling of “squirt coming out of her urethra”. Tell her to let go. It’s actually physically impossible to pee during an orgasm. Also you still have those bed sheets under her … do you?

14. When she comes, step out of the way You will see it’s neither yellow nor does it smell like urine.

15. Women stay aroused for quite some time after orgasming by the way. Feel free to enter her and join the fun.

Congratulations!

Now that was how to make a girl squirt to get you started. Let me tell you at a point in my life about 2 years ago I was really frustrated as I just couldn’t get women to have the kind of orgasms I really wanted to give them. In fact I often felt bad because my girlfriends never seemed fully satisfied with our relationship… and how could they?

To change this I’ve looked around the internet for advice, probably just like you. But boy oh boy let me tell you there is much crap written out there.

Especially most mainstream publications are so full of it. But who takes sex advice from Men’s Health anyway?

Well if you kiss enough frogs you’re bound to find a princess (in my case female of course hehe) some time. For me that was the day I found this sex guide by Susan Johnsson and Paul Tony. I still don’t like the fact that it doesn’t talk anywhere about actual female squirting orgasms at all but I learned from it to give women three friggin’ orgasms at the same time and the hardest part about it was to hold her down when she orgasmed because she had really strong muscle spasms from all the pleasure. I’m not kidding!

And only after that I found out even more, about squirting for example. I don’t even know if I would have been able to get her squirting if I hadn’t been taught that kind of orgasm mastery before. That is to say: Thank you Susan and Paul!

Click here to see the website of that 3-Orgasm guide.

Okay let’s finish this off. I hope I gave you a good overview of how to make a woman squirt and for everyone not yet satisfied, keep an eye open for my how to make a girl squirt video where I’ll explain more about this. It’s alway something different to hear it in contrast to just reading it.

Okay let’s get a little deeper into it. No not what you think…

So I told you in the other post “how to make a woman squirt for real” that the most important points are massage for proper blood flow and G-Spot stimulus. This can either be done oral or better by hand since you do need quite some pressure on the G-Spot.

If you imagine her lying down on her back the G-Spot is located on the upper area right behind her vaginal entrance. When pushing up against it you will notice it feels like very soft tissue and starts to swell after some time of stimulating it.

After a while she will probably feel something like the need to pee. Once again let me tell you: It is not possible to pee during orgasm. She will feel that “something needs to come out” not unsimilar to the feeling we men get before orgasming. They just don’t know the feeling and misinterpret it as the need to urinate.

Now since everyone is trained to hold back the pee untill you are sitting on a toilet she will probably also clench her pelvic muscles and have a hard time to let loose. But this is essential as this holding back is the last thing that wilprevent her from squirting and having the most mindblowing orgasm she had all of her life.

Helpful for her to learn letting go might be to

1. do the kegel-excercise throughout the day to learn to feel and strengthen those muscles [kegel=contracting and relaxing the pelvic base as often as you can. For a man this will make your penis move up and down and for a woman this will make the vagina tighter.]
2. make a “pushing out” motion with those pelvic base muscles when getting to the orgasm. Some women described this as helpful.

You might notice there is quite a lot to say about how to make a woman squirt that most would never have guessed. No wonder you read repeatedly that “some women can squirt, some can’t”. All can if they know how.

Be not afraid, it might sound complicated and like a lot but at the end of the tunnel you will … see squirt

Yes it is for real. I know many people still don’t believe  that female ejaculatory orgasms are possible but let me assure you: I’ve seen it with my own eyes. It’s a fluid that is nothing like pee. It is clear and has no odor. And on a side note I also was told by a medical professional that it is physically impossible to pee while orgasming. I as a man know this is true and I can imagine it is the same for women. As for my girlfriend let’s just say: She never attempted to try it.

Are you ready for the secret why some women can squirt and some can’t? Here comes:

It’s the blood flow. Don’t ask me why but that’s what I was taught and that’s what I found to be true.

So how to make a woman squirt that was a non-squirter before? You massage here. deeply. It takes several sessions for most to be able to get enough blood flowing for the ejaculate to build.

Especially massage in the areas around the vagina that aren’t usually massaged by professionals. This includes inner thighs, the pubic bone, the sacrum and the loins.

The second secret is: stimulating the G-Spot.

This is kind of hard to explain in text. I should probably make a “how to make a girl squirt video” (edit: did it … kind of) but that would feel like pornography and while my girlfriend wouldn’t do it I also wouldn’t want everyone to see her squirt …

So that was the most basic breakdown of how to make a girl squirt. Hope it helped you.